In the Crossed variation of the Butterfly position, the woman crosses her legs over the man's shoulders, creating a tighter squeeze that can enhance pleasure for both partners. However, this position limits clitoral access, which is a key benefit of the Butterfly family. To address this, the man can use his thumb to stimulate the woman's clitoris from the side of her crossing-over leg. It's important to experiment with crossing the legs in both directions to find the most comfortable and pleasurable position for both partners. Communication and feedback are essential in discovering what works best in your unique sexual relationship.