The Folded Lotus is an advanced and intimate sexual position that requires strength, flexibility, and trust between partners. The woman sits on the man's lap, with her legs folded inward and draped over his shoulders or neck. This position allows for deep penetration and intense eye contact, fostering a strong emotional connection. To perform the Folded Lotus, the woman should start by sitting on the man's lap, facing him. She then lifts her legs and drapes them over his shoulders, allowing her feet to rest near his neck. The man can support her by placing his hands on her hips or lower back. He can then gently lift her, allowing for some penetration distance. The woman can also use her arms to help support her body weight. It's essential to communicate and go slow, as this position can be challenging for both partners. The man should be mindful of his back, and the woman should ensure she is comfortable with the depth of penetration. Practicing against a couch or bed can provide additional support and make the position more accessible for beginners. Remember to listen to your body and enjoy the closeness and connection this position offers.